Authentic Victories

Something’s missing. You just can’t quite name it.

Maybe…

Life feels more routine than exciting.
You can’t remember the last thing you did purely because you wanted to.
You’re craving something, but you’re not entirely sure what.
You’ve gotten very good at taking care of everyone — including yourself — but you’re still a little bored.
You want more fun, intimacy, creativity, adventure or pleasure.
You keep thinking, There has to be more than this.

Good. That feeling isn’t a problem to solve. It’s an invitation.

Self-care was never supposed to be the destination.

Taking care of yourself matters. Loving yourself matters.

But eventually, the question changes from: “How do I take better care of myself?”

to:

“What do I actually want?”

What excites me?
What feels good?
What am I curious about?
What would I try if I stopped worrying whether it was productive, practical or appropriate?

This is where I found myself, deep in the space of coaching others about self-care but wondering if any of us were actually enjoying it! So now Authentic Victories is about exploring those questions — and giving ourselves permission to enjoy finding the answers.

PLEASURE.

When I started talking more about pleasure most people naturally think pleasure = sex.

And yes, pleasure can absolutely be a part of sex (hopefully it is!), but pleasure is so much bigger and more expansive than just sex.

Pleasure can look like…

Taking yourself somewhere you’ve always wanted to go.
Wearing something that makes you feel ridiculously good.
Having better sex.
Reading all afternoon.
Trying pottery and being terrible at it.
Dancing in your kitchen.
Saying no without writing a three-paragraph explanation.
Wanting something simply because you want it.
Booking the trip.
Flirting.
Resting.
Creating.
Playing.
Exploring.

Pleasure is anything that reminds you: I’m not just here to get through my life. I’m here to experience it.

Pleasure can be simple. Pleasure can be easy. Pleasure can fun. Curious to know how?

Start with 20 minutes that belong only to you.

No productivity.
No fixing yourself.
No elaborate morning routine you’re going to abandon by Thursday.

Just twenty minutes to slow down, check in and ask yourself:

What would feel good right now?

20 Minutes of Mine, is not another morning routine, it’s not another habit you need to create, it’s about taking 20 minutes of pleasure just for you.

It’s really a check in. A chance for you to get to know yourself, the you who you are now. Not this person you think you should be or wish you were, but the you that has been there waiting to be re-discovered.

It’s got some intuitive movement, some reflections, and a guided experience to help you tap into what YOU love NOW!

For years, my work centered around self-love, self-care and helping women feel better about themselves.

And I still believe in all of that.

But somewhere along the way, I started getting interested in a different question: Once we’ve learned to take care of ourselves… are we actually enjoying ourselves?

That question led me here. Now my work is about helping women explore pleasure, passion, curiosity, desire and what it means to create a life that doesn’t just look good from the outside — but feels really damn good to live.

So now, I’m asking you:

Where do you want more?

MORE PLEASURE

Reconnect with what feels good — physically, emotionally and sensually.

MORE PASSION

Rediscover the things that excite, fascinate and energize you.

MORE YOU

Get curious about who you are underneath expectations, routines and roles.

I am working on just such a space.

Introducing:

For My Own Pleasure

What if you had something every week that was just yours?

For My Own Pleasure will be an ongoing invitation to explore what feels good, what you’re curious about and what makes you feel more like yourself.

Every experience includes a MINE Moment — a small practice, experiment or invitation you do for absolutely no one but yourself.

For My Own Pleasure will be a monthly subscription so you go at your own pace. You do what works for you.

For My Own Pleasure will include:

Intuitive movement classes
Journal prompts
Guided reflection practices
Plus more ways to explore joy, pleasure and YOU!

For My Own Pleasure will launch October 2026, so if you don’t want to miss the launch get 20 Minutes of Mine and be one of the first to know when the membership is live.

20 MINUTES OF MINE